Change in Life - For Girl n Boy

It's shifting time for me also. Why I have used ALSO here? Because i belong to KANYA Rashi and some persons who belongs to the same rashi have already been shifted or have plans to shift.

How easy for ones to face changes in life?
It's not that easy because human mind resist changes in every aspect of life (not compulsorily applicable for all the people, some are there who take it as a challenge/opportunity). Why MIND resist, is it due to fear?, laziness? or not want to adopt in a new situation. Answer is different from different people.

So think how difficult it would be for a Indian girl( because she needs to adjust in new family - not talking abt English/Japanese/American gals) to get marry and spend her rest of the life with a guy to whom she don't know. Its hard to accept it and very hard to face it. But does she know that that guy also has to make equal adjustments. One things always runs in his mind and that is - responsibility. He is responsible to girl with whom he has decided to spend his life. Big question here is WHY he is responsible? The answer to this question is that girl has only ONE person in her new life (married life is considered as a beginning of new life) to whom she can tell her feelings, expectations, needs, thoughts and she can believe, trust on him. This is the feeling guy contains. And that makes him concerned about, lovable towards his life partner.

What makes a girl to feel free or easy to accept this change and make herself available for it?

Pages can be written on this topic, but let me stop over here only.


Simant, (Sultan is Trying to study the women’s psychology.)

* Refer : Men’s are from Marsh, Women's are from Venus
Great book on men's and women's psychology.